Etiquette and safety in inviting a person to be keyholder?

[Chosen Keyholder]

I am an unmarried male and recently I learnt of the existence of the male chastity cage. I learnt about it while readkng up on female chastity belts online after a recent friend had given me the keys to a portable safe in which the keys to her belt are locked. I don't think I have ever knowingly met a locked person of either sex before.
This has aroused my interest in male enforced chastity, but I do have two questions:

1. As for safety, my friend had explained that she wanted to keep the keys to her belt in her own possession (albeit locked inside a portable safe) for safety reasons, so that in a medical emergency a specialist could break it open if necessary should the key holder be unavailable for any reason. For the male chastity cage, I was thinking of not getting a safe but instead give the keys to the cage itself to the jeyholder. Would wearing a cage really be so dangerous as to have to worry about such things?

2. If unmarried, how would you choose a key holder, and how would you introduce the subject in a casual conversation? I am thinking maybe to the same person who gave me the keys to her safe (which I am planning of passing on to someone else soon enough). When she first gave me herd she never told me initially what was in the safe. I would assume it to be common cortecy to either tell the person before they accept or never, but certainly not after. How would you view this?

[Greatcornbow]

As I said on your other thread, I don't think passing her keys to a third person is the answer, at least not now nor without a mutual agreement with her.. But if you're looking to be a wearer as well, what's wrong with a mutual arrangement? You control her keys and she controls yours: could be ideal.

[Chosen Keyholder]

As I said on your other thread, I don't think passing her keys to a third person is the answer, at least not now nor without a mutual agreement with her.. But if you're looking to be a wearer as well, what's wrong with a mutual arrangement? You control her keys and she controls yours: could be ideal.

You might be right. And if she considered it acceptable to give me the keys to a portable safe in which the keys to her belt were locked, then she couldn't say it's not acceptable for me to offer the keys to a portable safe in which the keys to my cage are locked.

I have already started looking into the jailbird at maturemetal.com. Anyway, thanks for all the idea, Greatcornbow.

I have to say, going from not even knowing of the existence of a chastity cage a month ago to this, it's quite a change in my life.

[Greatcornbow]

As I said on your other thread, I don't think passing her keys to a third person is the answer, at least not now nor without a mutual agreement with her.. But if you're looking to be a wearer as well, what's wrong with a mutual arrangement? You control her keys and she controls yours: could be ideal.

You might be right. And if she considered it acceptable to give me the keys to a portable safe in which the keys to her belt were locked, then she couldn't say it's not acceptable for me to offer the keys to a portable safe in which the keys to my cage are locked.

I have already started looking into the jailbird at maturemetal.com. Anyway, thanks for all the idea, Greatcornbow.

I have to say, going from not even knowing of the existence of a chastity cage a month ago to this, it's quite a change in my life.

Jailbird and MM could be an option. Or perhaps Lori. What does she think - or have you not asked her?
Alternatively, if you can know (no reason why she shouldn't tell/show you surely) what her belt is and it's a suitable one, like Neosteel, you could also go for their male counterpart.

Also if you have/get a secure safe, and she the keys to it, it can hold both your cb keys and the keys to her safe, so then neither of you can be unlocked without opening the way to both. A double veto both ways.

[Chosen Keyholder]

I haven't asked her. One reason I am here us that I'm still a little shy of bringing it up over text message or email. We are meeting this Sunday my place for lunch. I so hope she really I'd locked into one and wasn't pulling my leg. My hormones would shoot off the grid if I found out otherwise.
As for my own belt, since I will be wearing it, it might as well be something I would like. MM seems to fit my style. Somewhat minimalistic and utilitarian.

[Greatcornbow]

I haven't asked her. One reason I am here us that I'm still a little shy of bringing it up over text message or email. We are meeting this Sunday my place for lunch. I so hope she really I'd locked into one and wasn't pulling my leg. My hormones would shoot off the grid if I found out otherwise.
As for my own belt, since I will be wearing it, it might as well be something I would like. MM seems to fit my style. Somewhat minimalistic and utilitarian.

I agree, not a thing to bring up in text or email. Needs to be meeting.
I'll be watching this space for Sunday afternoon/evening!

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