Profile?
Posted: 20 May 2018, 18:47
Is there a place to fill out a sort of profile for here?
Doesn't look like the board is overly active, but I like to come here and read whatevers new. I've been visiting for about a month. I've posted a journal on fetlife describing my chastity journey so far. if you'd like to look me up, my fet name is _Lucifyre_ (don't forget the underscores). I've got following turned OFF there and I prefer an introduction message before a friend request.
So, I guess I should post an introduction anyway.
My name is Luci and I am in a 24/7 D/s dynamic. I am not (technically) submissive, but I am His slave. A lot of what we do comes from things I think about (He spends a lot of time using His brilliant brain at work, so guiding the actual dynamic is mainly up to me and my limits and interests.) We (no, I don't write with that W/we shit, it makes me crazy) have been married for 25 years and have been D/s for about 23 of those.
I've been interested in tease/denial for a long time now. I finally broke down and bought a cheapy belt about a year ago...we used it once and had some issues and put it away until just recently. The last week or so I have managed to figure out a way to at least temporarily overcome some of those issues and am just dealing with the rest for now until I can find it in the budget to spend the money on a good belt. (donations welcome...should I crowd fund? LOL)
So far I have been belted and plugged anally effectively 24/7 removing it only do clean it or perform bathroom maintenance (shower, bowel movement etc). I miss it when it isn't on or I'm not plugged. I have even managed to figure out a way to pee with it on and stay clean (thank FUCK for that because gross LOL) He does insist on me taking regular breaks from being plugged because He doesn't ever want to harm me. He listens well to my feedback about what's going on with my body and is very careful to not allow me to hurt myself.
So, I think I need to make a note here about *cheating* the belt. I don't even try. If I was interested in doing that, in my opinion there wouldn't be a point to wearing it to begin with. My orgasms belong to Him and they have for a LONG time now, as does the rest of my body. What drives me with being in chastity as well as the entire dynamic we share frankly is it makes me happy and turns me on to make Him happy and being grateful when He allows me sexual relief (which btw happens semi-frequently, so I am not always sexually frustrated :p)
Some of the things we do in addition to the belt and the plug are regular enemas, anal stretching, nipple torment, spanking (hands and implements) bondage and fisting, both vaginally and anally. MOST of my day every day is vanilla. But we try to engage in *some* sort of scene/play/D/s every day. People say good relationships are work, frankly our actual marriage and relationship is easy, it's keeping the dynamic at the surface that's work...because life tries to get in the way a lot. Understand that our dynamic is very important to us and putting in the work is well worth it.
Anyway, that's it for now. If you're interested, check out my fet profile. And I might copy and paste my journal over here as well.
Luci
Doesn't look like the board is overly active, but I like to come here and read whatevers new. I've been visiting for about a month. I've posted a journal on fetlife describing my chastity journey so far. if you'd like to look me up, my fet name is _Lucifyre_ (don't forget the underscores). I've got following turned OFF there and I prefer an introduction message before a friend request.
So, I guess I should post an introduction anyway.
My name is Luci and I am in a 24/7 D/s dynamic. I am not (technically) submissive, but I am His slave. A lot of what we do comes from things I think about (He spends a lot of time using His brilliant brain at work, so guiding the actual dynamic is mainly up to me and my limits and interests.) We (no, I don't write with that W/we shit, it makes me crazy) have been married for 25 years and have been D/s for about 23 of those.
I've been interested in tease/denial for a long time now. I finally broke down and bought a cheapy belt about a year ago...we used it once and had some issues and put it away until just recently. The last week or so I have managed to figure out a way to at least temporarily overcome some of those issues and am just dealing with the rest for now until I can find it in the budget to spend the money on a good belt. (donations welcome...should I crowd fund? LOL)
So far I have been belted and plugged anally effectively 24/7 removing it only do clean it or perform bathroom maintenance (shower, bowel movement etc). I miss it when it isn't on or I'm not plugged. I have even managed to figure out a way to pee with it on and stay clean (thank FUCK for that because gross LOL) He does insist on me taking regular breaks from being plugged because He doesn't ever want to harm me. He listens well to my feedback about what's going on with my body and is very careful to not allow me to hurt myself.
So, I think I need to make a note here about *cheating* the belt. I don't even try. If I was interested in doing that, in my opinion there wouldn't be a point to wearing it to begin with. My orgasms belong to Him and they have for a LONG time now, as does the rest of my body. What drives me with being in chastity as well as the entire dynamic we share frankly is it makes me happy and turns me on to make Him happy and being grateful when He allows me sexual relief (which btw happens semi-frequently, so I am not always sexually frustrated :p)
Some of the things we do in addition to the belt and the plug are regular enemas, anal stretching, nipple torment, spanking (hands and implements) bondage and fisting, both vaginally and anally. MOST of my day every day is vanilla. But we try to engage in *some* sort of scene/play/D/s every day. People say good relationships are work, frankly our actual marriage and relationship is easy, it's keeping the dynamic at the surface that's work...because life tries to get in the way a lot. Understand that our dynamic is very important to us and putting in the work is well worth it.
Anyway, that's it for now. If you're interested, check out my fet profile. And I might copy and paste my journal over here as well.
Luci