Some questions

[dthestaff]

Hi. My pet and I are in a LDR and are into denial-play; we're both very interested in her wearing a chastity belt that prevents sex and masturbation. Since we'd like this to be a almost-all-the-time thing, a comfortable and discrete belt is very important. Having a belt that is comfortable and can be worn nearly 24/7 is far more important than security. For safety, she will always have access to some sort of emergency key.

We tried a thong-style belt and found it far too easy to masturbate in while also being not terribly comfortable and way to easy to take off. Does anyone have any experience properly fitting thong-style belts such as: https://oxy-shop.com/collections/female ... stity-belt

We're also considering this style https://oxy-shop.com/collections/female ... -jail-bird but the anal gap seems to cause more problems than it solves. I see that fancy steal and sells a nicer version of this. Does anyone have experience with both? Is the fancy-steel price tag worth it?

Does anyone have any other recommendations on good comfort-first belts that also also at least someone secure against masturbation? We're particularly interested in the fancy steel hybrid belt, any thought son that?

[Tobbe]

The belts you linked to are more for short-term use.
24/7 requires more stable constructions like the ones you can buy at My-steel and Neosteel.

[Wendy]

Hi.

I don't have any experience with such belts, but they look very weak. A solid chastity belt with bands is much better, and suitable for beginners.
My-Steel is the brand I have the best experience with: safe and comfortable.

[dthestaff]

Thanks for the precise suggestions. It looks like my-steel has many different variations. May I ask which one you have and how long you've worn it for?

[Wendy]

Continuous crotchband, regular waiststyle. Worn for 31 days longest.

[dthestaff]

Thanks. That is really useful to know.

* Did that style restrict movement very much? Was it sitting down still comfortable, for example?
* Did it actually prevent masturbation? The oxy-shop belts that I references are still very easy to masturbate in.


Do you have any other belt recommendations that we should think about? Our plan is to use the cheaper belts from oxy-shop for short-term "practice" and then upgrade to a better belt once she is more used to it.

[Wendy]

Sitting down is comfortable. It doens't hinder my movements.
It is very effective against stimulation.

A chastity belt must have side rings. It makes applying oil easier.

[dthestaff]

Hi. Can you elaborate on what you mean about oil? We've been using baby-powder for some belts and it seems to work okay.

One problem we've run in to: We can adjust the belt so that it is comfortable and secure against sex but it has been hard to get things tight enough that she can not stick a finger in and masturbate. If we make it that tight it starts to press on her hips too much and hurt. Any advice on how to correctly adjust a belt so that it is secure against masturbation as well as intercourse?

We're also curious if anyone has experience using piercings for chastity. I've seen some interesting photos on the internet but we're very interested if someone has tried that and can report.

Thanks!

[Wendy]

I use vegetal oil (often sweet almond) between the skin and the belt. It is more effective than baby powder.

Reguler chastity belts have never been 100% effective to prevent me from slipping a finger between the shield and my pussy. A double-shielded belt (like My-Steel or my custom Heart Belt) is the only way to feel secure without being too tight.

[dthestaff]

Thanks. That is very useful.